Selective Singles

Selective Singles is a discreet matchmaking and introductions service for affluent, professional and discerning single individuals aged 35 and above who are seeking serious/meaningful, long-term relationships.

Founded by Baba Netto and Michelle Humpherston, Selective Singles offers a considered, human-led alternative to dating apps. Each prospective member is invited to a private consultation before being considered for membership, and every introduction thereafter is thoughtfully curated and treated in complete confidence.

Membership is structured across three tiers — Select, Signature and Exclusive — accommodating members at different stages of their search. The higher tiers provide priority handling, off-network search where required, and a dedicated senior consultant.

Confidentiality is central to the Selective Singles approach. Member details are never shared without express permission, and the service welcomes those who require additional privacy arrangements, including non-disclosure provisions where appropriate.

Selective Singles serves members predominantly across, Gloucestershire, Warwickshire, Worcestershire and the Midlands – acknowledging that members prefer introductions to be geographically aligned.